As a ring maker, engagement rings and wedding bands comprise a huge portion of your commissions. I wondered what relationship you have, as a queer woman, to these symbols so steeped in heterosexual tradition.
I love that my work revolves so heavily around love. While I do not necessarily see myself getting married, I made rings for my partner, Olivia, and me. It is the best tradition (in my opinion). We need more gestures of love in this world, no matter who it is between. Seeing couples getting excited about their day and being a part of that story is magic and I am so grateful that my day-to-day is filled with so much of this joy. I have to admit that when a queer couple comes to me for rings, it brings an extra layer of joy. Being queer myself, they can trust I am a safe place for them.
In previous conversations, you had described the act of making as being instinctual, rather than guided by some conscious force. It’s a practice that feels futile to verbalise, or qualitate in words. I wondered, instead, what feelings or thoughts are elicited when you create? Can you attempt to describe the sensation it brings you?
It feels less like a choice and more like an urge, a way to communicate and to feel at ease in the world. I could describe it as meditative, though I am rarely serene while I work. Still, making feels instinctive, and when I am not creating, I start to feel unsettled. I come from a family of artists. Growing up, my mum always had her sculpture studio and my dad his painting studio. Making was a constant topic of conversation and an assumed part of our daily lives. My mum, especially, has a real affinity for creating art with children, and she nurtured that side of me in a way that was incredibly valuable. Making is so deeply embedded in my daily rhythm that without it, I believe I would feel a real sense of emptiness.